Your nan is around

Hi James, just wanted to know if my nan is happy where ever she is.

Laura Findlay, Wallasey, Wirral

Dear Laura, Your nan is around you and I get the impression that you always take a back seat to everyone around you. I also feel you're not very old, although some of the things you do and say people have said you are going old before your time or you're old fashioned in your ways.

You need to stand up and be counted as she would want you to be. She is around you and also a male. I feel you are surrounded by love, but at times not really considered for who you are and what you do. Think about yourself and what you want for a change.